Book excerpt: The ultimate guide to being a great bridesmaid, helping you focus on what you need to do, when to do it, and how to be both economical and fulfill the bride's wishes at the same time. This comprehensive handbook includes: --What needs to be on your To-Do List: the responsibilities of bridesmaids --Guidelines on how much time and money you can expect to spend --How to look fabulous on the wedding day --Influencing the choice of bridesmaids' dresses --What to do about bridal showers, engagement parties, bachelorette bashes and other parties --Ceremony etiquette, what to give the bride & groom, the rehearsal and rehearsal dinner --Running interference and otherwise saving the bride's day