Book excerpt: Do you ever wonder why we continue to have the same problems, deal with the same issues, and experience the same hurts over and over again? What do we do when the pain seems ridiculous or embarrassing but it still casts a shadow over our lives? We may even know why we hurt, where it all originated, but we can't seem to make the hurting stop. What do we do when we don't want to go for counseling - we want to clear it ourselves - but we just don't know how? I'd been asking these questions for years. The answers came to me while I was traveling in Europe with my daughter. With the answers I found, I was able to take control of my life and understand why, up to then, I never really had control. Using the profound and simple system I discovered, I was able to heal my emotional hurts - one by one. This is the story of what I discovered.