Book excerpt: Can Disloyalty Pave the Path to Joyful Parenting?Yes It Can!In her long-awaited new book, Breaking Your Loyalty Contract: Shattering the Mirror Effect Between Parents and Children, child development expert Maria Steuer invites you to explore why issues stemming from unspoken loyalty contracts with your parents are reflected back to you through your child's "misbehavior."When you know why you think the way you think, you'll gain the clarity you need to ... -Understand what's in your subconscious blind spots as a parent (we all have them!)-Ask self-questions that dissolve buried belief systems that have impeded your growth-Recognize that what you view as faults in your children may actually be gifts-Release your children and yourself from unreasonable expectations so you can thrive and flourish as a familyAfter you read Breaking Your Loyalty Contract you'll feel certain in your ability to step away from generational regulations, well-intentioned advice, and family constraints. When you do you'll be free to make parenting your children the joyous journey it is meant to be."Breaking Your Loyalty Contract feels like a judgement-free zone in which parents can explore WHY their own childhood has such a huge impact on how they raise their children. Maria Steuer reveals that once parents understand this 'why, ' the 'how to' aspect of parenting becomes infinitely easier and more rewarding."Maria Steuer is a renowned pediatrician and family therapist based in Germany. She specializes in examining the root cause of childhood behavioral patterns. As a doctor for Germany's education system she has advised more than 20,000 parents on childhood behavior issues.