Book excerpt: Scot Anderson talks to dads on how to be more than a provider and a protector, but how to be a father. Becoming a good father is not automatic, it also isn't a gift that some have and some don't. You learn how to be a father from your father or lack of a father. Like it or not you will develop the same type of relationship with your children that your father has with you. The only way to break this is to get the truth inside of you on how to be a great father.