Book excerpt: My Book of Wins is not just a book, but an interactive, immediate, life changing activity. My Book of Wins shares a secret with its readers that allows them to discover the most confident side of themselves, perhaps for the first time. It taps into the hidden strength and fear-crushing spirit inside of us all. A book that includes personal stories, inspiring quotes and writing exercises, My Book of Wins helps individuals determine their own destiny with a simplicity in sharp contrast to most self-help systems available today. It was created to help build a foundation of unbreakable belief in oneself and the ability to take responsibility for one's own life, versus allowing outside forces to dictate happiness. The uniqueness comes from the users creating such a private dialogue with themselves, that a natural transformation takes place, resulting in the most confident self-assured version of who they are. The author shares his own experience, explaining in detail how using such a simple activity each day can make such a tremendous impact on a person, both immediately and over a lifetime. In a world of "instant everything" without time for contemplation, My Book of Wins gives individuals the ability to see results of their efforts very quickly. The required effort is no more than about 30 seconds per day and the reward is a transformation, into the strongest self.