Book excerpt: Are you walking on eggshells? Do you dread it when your honey comes home from work? Do you wake up hopeful and go to bed sobbing? Did you used to be confident and independent but now you second guess your every choice even if you have a powerful career? If the beginning of your relationship was wonderful and you thought you found your soul mate yet now it seems like every day there's an argument about something, you may be dancing in the gaslight. If you find yourself trying to prevent fights by trying to avoid triggers but you end up in a fight anyway, you may be getting gaslighted. Gaslighting is a technique that abusers use to manipulate their targets. It can be subtle and may occur over years while the gaslighter leads a secret life, embezzles money, gambles, drinks, or any other number of things. Gaslighting is used to distract the target from what is really going on. Find out if maybe the unease you've been feeling can be a sign that you're being gaslighted by learning the signs and flags in part three of the Gaslight Survivor Series: Dancing in the Gaslight.