Book excerpt: The Insightful Marriage is an essential read for anyone who wants to beat the odds and actually be happily married. Full of indispensable tips, informative couple’s stories, clarifying examples, skills building “quick-check” self-assessments and valuable self-help exercises that turn insight into sound marriage practice, this book will lead you to an insightful awareness of why marriage can be so hard and what you really have to do to be happily married. Based on over 30 years of clinical practice and demonstrated success with couples, The Insightful Marriage spells out, in a very approachable and often entertaining way, the truth about marriage and passion and details what it truly takes to keep or rekindle love. By tackling the underlying problems of marriage head-on, this book takes you beyond the superficial so that these core problems do not become your problems. So whether you want to learn about marriage going in, move your marriage out of difficult times, or prepare yourself for another try, the unique, “road tested” approach outlined in The Insightful Marriage will guide you and your partner to a happy lifetime together.