Book excerpt: Chapter by chapter, with helpful hints, simple strategies, and creative checklists, the author reveals her secrets through the letters of the word, P-E-R-F-E-C-T, and helps parents: Create "Priority Pie" and balance life, Get "In-Sync" with the needs and feelings of each child, Pay attention to "What is Said" and "What is not Said," "Routinize" and "Discipline without Dictatorship," Discover, "Encourage" and Develop the total child, and more