Book excerpt: After hearing the incredible stories of military couples scattered all over the world, we learned a few things about you. First, we learned that military marriage is hard. Like, really hard. And here's the other things we learned: military marriages are resilient. You stare down PCS moves, workups, deployments, trauma, loss, loneliness, and constant change. And you do it together, as a team. We are in awe!In 31 Creative Ways To Love And Encourage Her Jefferson and Alyssa Bethke lay out simple ways to bring the beauty, joy, and vibrancy back to a relationship. Each day brings a new adventure that can range from being serious to whimsical to humorous.