Book excerpt: 99 THINGS YOU WISH YOU KNEW BEFORE FALLING IN LOVE is the answer to the question, what does it take to create lasting, satisfying love? Dr. Brenda, the author, reveals why the current 51% divorce rate should never be above 8.5%. Through clear, concise, entertaining stories, research and personal experiences, she walks you through getting to know your future or existing mate, the nuts and bolts of love insight, skill, behavior, repair and maintenance. Think of your job people! We need to invest at least as much time and energy into our love life as our career to keep it running smoothly.