Book excerpt: Ruby Ahluwalia, a bureaucrat with a wandering, adventurous spirit, had it all — a successful career, a happy, supportive family and a creative and analytical mind. A pro multitasker, she was juggling her time and energies to be a super professional and a super mom, wife and daughter. Little did she realize that in this process, she was becoming a ‘below average her’. Just when she realized that she was almost losing the ground beneath her feet, she had a knock on her door – a knock that toppled her life upside down on full velocity and changed the course of her life… Here’s her journey — a story of self exploration — that led her to answers that lay in the patterns of human behaviour. • If your urge to nurture others is leading you to under nourish yourself, • If your suppressed self is leading you to abuse your body, soul and mind, • If you are craving to mend the splits in your soul.. Then it is your story too…. We all have our own cancers, even if they may not have become tumors as yet. How can we heal ourselves and come out of our self-created pits and discover our infinite potential is the purpose of telling this story. Ruby is now a Life Coach and a prolific speaker on Holistic healing. She is the Founder of Sanjeevani Life Beyond Cancer and has worked with more than 2 lakh patients across India through the narrative of Integrated Cancer care. You can reach out to her on her email, [email protected]