Book excerpt: In Healing Wounded Relationships, psychologist Martin Rovers helps you examine and re-create your relationship with your spouse in a healthy and loving way. This hope-filled book is for individuals and couples, as well as those who work with them in counseling: people who want to love and be loved, who want to know where love comes from, how it works, how love can live or die and, especially, how to live a fuller, loving life with their spouse