Book excerpt: Heavenly Ever After: The Ultimate Relationship Guide for Men Workbook--based on the experiences of the authors in dating, courtship, and marriage--provides men with a how-to guide for forming loving and sustainable relationships. Unlike most relationship guides available today, Heavenly Ever After takes the hands-on approach one-step further. The workbook exercises provide direction for choosing a mate and will help prevent some of the catastrophes and pitfalls of marriage. By describing how to make healthy choices and take purposeful actions, it provides the basis needed to develop healthy relationships with topics such as: The dangers of gambling with relationships The balanced life model The value of test driving and risk-taking The benefit of good communication Knowing the difference between love and infatuation The benefit of healthy boundaries Through the use of concrete examples and creative insights, the workbook presents a unique approach to help men find the perfect mate. With useful information from men who have survived the journey, it also equips those entering the I-Want-to-Get-Remarried zone. Written by men who dared to love, suffered the pain of failure, and chose to love again, the tools in Heavenly Ever After will expand men's awareness and broaden their choices as they search for lasting relationships.