Book excerpt: The English Gentleman's guide to finding your Seoul mate.If you try to date a Korean lady as you would date a western lady, you will fail. You need to learn how to date her as a Korean man would date her if you want to be successful.Alexander James is an English gentleman who spent his childhood in Oxford. While at University in Manchester he become friends with two overseas students from Hong Kong which awakened his lifelong passion for Asia. After working in London for more than 10 years he grabbed the opportunity to relocate to Singapore. There he met, dated, fell in love with and married an intelligent, mature, feminine and beautiful Korean lady. In this book Alexander shares his Korean dating experiences, his successes and his failures. This includes the going on the first date, counting the days, leading the date course, wearing couple style, learning Korean and meeting her parents for the first time.If you try to date a Korean lady as you would date a western lady, you will fail. You need to learn how to date her as a Korean man would date her if you want to be successful.In short, Alexander has written the relationship book that he wished existed when he started dating a Korean lady.