Book excerpt: This book will help those confused by the gender wars to gain a grip on the issues. The distinction between sex and gender identity is explained as to the meaning and implications of the individual elements of the LGBITQ+ group. The roles of culture and religion are shown to create many entwined issues and dilemmas for individuals and society, with serious argument inter alia over dysphoria assessment/treatments and self-declaration, abortion and anti-abortion rights, transgender female athletes competing against biological females, the consent revolution, extra marital affairs, dating apps problems and dictates of religious beliefs.