Book excerpt: Joy, No Matter What shows that joy is not something "out there," available only to the lucky few born with emotional silver spoons in their mouths. We all have joy at our core. No matter what's going on in our lives, we can uncover our innate joy and bring it into the light of our everyday lives. Carolyn Hobbs has worked with thousands of people in individual and couples' therapy, workshops, and graduate courses. She has helped people face depression and anxiety, handle chronic pain and life-threatening diseases, overcome addictions, cope with life transofmrations -- and still find their own joy in the midst of whatever life throws their way. Making the choices that can change your life is as simple as 1, 2, 3.