Book excerpt: At last, gay love is here to stay. In the era of mobile apps, the gay dating census (aka #BaeBuffet) is literally in the palm of your hands. But how do you sift through all the digital smoke and glitter to find a heart of gold? Enter certified matchmaker and love coach, Amari Ice, and his twelve-step RELATIONSHIP Process. In Lasting Love at Last, Amari Ice, the gay relationship guru, will show you: - How to attract lasting love in as little as ten weeks - How to recognize and neutralize what's sabotaged your past relationships - The reason most relationships fail - The difference between not being ready for a relationship and being scared of commitment - What you actually need from a partner in order to be happy - How to guarantee you only invest in someone worth your time, energy, and love - And much, much more If Paul Carrick Brunson's It's Complicated (But It Doesn't Have to Be) and Patti Stanger's Become Your Own Matchmaker had a #Gayby, Lasting Love At Last is what they'd name it.