Book excerpt: Legendary Lover is a step-by-step manual for any man who wants to be an extraordinary lover. In society obsessed with suppressing rather than celebrating sex, this book tackles head-on the woes men face in the bedroom. It debunks myths and explores society's sexual hangups. It also describes in intimate detail the scared rituals, tools and practices available for more meaningful intimacy. Lover, sex coach and Tantric teacher Helena Nista draws on her own experience with more than 1,000 men to inspire reader to achieve mind-blowing connection, inside the bedroom and out.