Book excerpt: Men, if you want to be a better husband, father, and follower of Christ, but often feel like you miss the mark, this book might be for you. Be assured, you are not alone . . . To add to this sense of failure, the best-known passage on marriage in the Bible, and one our wives have put to memory, instructs us as husbands to "love your wives, as Christ loved the church . . . " Now that's a bar we can barely see, let alone reach. What husband can love his wife like Christ? Who do our wives think we are? Jesus?