Book excerpt: Still the most comprehensive profile of positive gay identity in print, Loving Someone Gay offers courageous support and compassionate guidance from an experienced gay therapist to gay men and lesbians to help them communicate effectively and successfully with their families, friends, colleagues, counselors and community leaders. The issues of gay marriage and domestic partnerships have not only been making headlines across the nation, they were a factor in the 2004 national election. The turbulent and divisive political climate in America today has refueled the historical controversy of being gay, and it cannot help but affect those who work with, live with, teach, counsel, lead and love people who are gay. Dr. Don Clark meets these formidable challenges with a freshly revised and thoroughly updated fourth edition that is more relevant and timely than ever. After nearly three decades, Loving Someone Gay is once again a standard-bearer in the struggle for equal respect, equal recognition and equal rights for all. Book jacket.