Book excerpt: TABLE OF CONTENTS: Acknowledgments: 1 A New Way to Go. 2 Such a Crowd in my Head. 3 What Am I Supposed to Be Like? 4 I Just Want the Facts, Ma'am. 5 Of Such Is the Kingdom. 6 What Do You Do with an Ego State? 7 Who's Saying What to Whom? 8 The Land of the Warm Fuzzies. 9 You Can't Tell the Frogs Without a Program. 10 The Rackets: I Can Feel Worse Than You Can. 11 When One of Us Has to Lose. 12 Unless You Become As Little Children. 13 You Are You, So Rejoice! Postlude. Bibliography.