Book excerpt: "One Gay Man's Anxious Relationship Patterns" is the author's true story of Anxious Attachment. Bo Sebastian documents many relationships from childhood to adulthood, showing the diverse ways attachment disorder can affect even a spiritual teacher and life coach of twenty-five years. Dealing with Post Traumatic Stress Disorder and Attachment Disorder can elude even the most diligent mind. From a rocky beginning of sexual abuse and one parent's departure, Bo began building unstable relationships. Many years of therapy and fights with God and religion brought about the needed change and power to deal with the insecure feelings of old and grasp hold of a new paradigm of healthy relationship, using the tools of spirituality, therapy, and attachment theory. Bo ultimately learns that relationship never brings happiness, unless all of the attachment wounds of the past have been met with compassion.