Book excerpt: "What if you were the best thing that ever happened on planet Earth? All the projections and expectations you've defined as meaningful are the things that keep you from being everything you are." Gary Douglas, in conversation with participants in a life-changing Access Consciousness(R) class, describes what projections, expectations, separations, judgments, and rejections are, the way they destroy you, your life, and your relationships, and how to get free of them and be everything you are. As class participants ask questions about money, business, work, love, sex, bodies, parents, family, and kids, Gary offers lively stories, provocative questions, and amazingly effective tools, and clearings that will enable you to clearly see what is in front of you, and to change anything in your life. "If you have no projections, expectations, separations, judgments, and rejections, you can actually be happy "