Book excerpt: The book explains how to unlearn previous assumptions and cultivate new ways of thinking in order to achieve the objective of raising joyful, independent children. examines the width and complexity of modern parenthood in a knowledgeable, approachable, and really caring language. This vital book displays the sort of communication that fosters self-esteem, inspires confidence, promotes responsibility, and significantly contributes to the stability of today's families. It is characterised by wisdom, humour, and helpful counsel.