Book excerpt: Reality Dating 101 is a sharp, sometimes cynical, and often humorous description of the ins and outs of dating as experienced by one single man and then responded to by a single woman. Bachelor Kenneth Schneider provides an eye-opening look into the realities of dating that is based on his own experiences as well as the experiences of others. Equally geared toward both men and women, he openly explores many of the topics and answers the questions many single people have but are afraid to ask. Why did your blind date leave the coffee shop less than an hour after you met? What are the real reasons why your date never called again? Why is your ex back in your life? "Beth" provides a woman's perspective by responding to all the topics, including ones such as: "Looking in the Mirror," "Playing Games," "Excuses," "Looks or Intelligence," and "It's Over When It's Over." Geared for people who love to laugh, the dating dilemmas covered in this guidebook are meant to encourage lively discussions around the water cooler or in the coffee shop about the never-ending quest for finding Mr. or Ms. Right.