Book excerpt: The move from soulmates to "sexual soulmates" is an outrageous adventure, a love-drenched journey of epic-erotic proportions. I am about to let you in on a big secret, a secret the happiest couples everywhere already know. I call it the Sexual Soulmate Secret. What you will find in the pages of Sexual Soulmates is a straightforward model and specific strategies for turning your mate into your sexual soulmate. I share with you the six essentials that will turn your current or next relationship into a romantic adventure full of intimacy, passion, and fun. You will learn a practical approach that is both simple and easy once you discover the power of: - Presence- Loverspace- The Sexual Soulmate Pact- Polarity- Embodied Sexuality- Erotic Playdates I speak as a woman who found, then lost, then re-discovered her soulmate and, ultimately, co-created a sexual soulmate relationship second to none. And I''m here to lead you to your Sexual Soulmate. You will discover: � How to BE rather than DO in the bedroom.� The ins and outs of loverspace.� The gift you give, and get, by giving up performance.� Making clear agreements and defining boundaries.� How time can work for you rather than against you.� The key ingredients that keep passion alive.� Specific practices that accelerate your love and lust. In addition to, and layered in with the key takeaways above, I will teach you communication skills that will, over time, expand your heart and your mind. It''s this layering process and these specific skills that give you the leg up to overcoming any obstacle that arises between you. No more drifting apart, shutting down, protecting your heart, hiding your hurt, sulking in silence, or manipulating to get what you want. I am going to show you how to be nourished by the lovemaking you share. Apply what you learn from this book and the two of you will grow in new, previously unimaginable, directions. Start off on the right foot with a new lover by weaving these skills into the fabric of your relationship. I kid you not. The dream of a sexual soulmate relationship is yours to claim. So claim it with your whole being. All you have to do is make a choice, bring your heart and your soul on this journey, and walk hand-in-hand with your current or future lover into new territory where you will co-create a love like no other. This is the updated second edition which includes stories of singles and couples who''ve implemented these six essentials for connected sex.Sexual Soulmates is for everyone across the gender spectrum of all ages and relationship status. Editorial Reviews: I liked your whole section on context and how women may be more sensitive to the environment of sexual encounters. ~ Dr. Susan Campbell, Sebastopol, CA I am a Registered Psychologist so I can give you a professional opinion - what you are doing is marvelous! The book is excellent because it is based on solid psychological principles grounded in a practical ''how to'' guide. ~ Lawrence S., Paris France Sexual Soulmates was a total an eye-opener! You gave us the missing piece to the intimacy puzzle. Huge thank you from me and my wife. In the matter of a week, we''ve put our relationship back on the "upward pleasure spiral." So much fun!! Blessings to you from Chicago. ~ Daniel P. This is NOT your typical bunch of puff and fluff slapped together to entice you to buy stuff-- This is a really complete and useful book that is filled with great ideas and insights to make your relationship really fire on all cylinders. Look, once you get past the early stages, everyone knows it''s rare, and sometimes even seems impossible to stop the drift from erotic and spicy into plain vanilla friendship (or worse, to just annoying and exhausting).