Book excerpt: Declutter Your Love Life and Go From Falling to Not Failing in Love Why is love so elusive? Why can it be there one day and gone the next? Why does everything change for some people as soon as they move in together, get married, or have children? Why do people who seem so right for each other fall out of love without warning? Or is there a warning? Is there a science, an art behind all of this? How do couples that stay madly in love for decades, truly until death does part them, do it? Figuring this out has been my mission ever since I was a young boy, given that my parents had a very unstable relationship with more yelling than your average death metal concert. Nevertheless, I didn