Book excerpt: Traditional sexual intercourse almost always produces an orgasm for men but rarely does for women. This is because the location of the clitoris prevents most women from getting sensitive, appropriate and sustained stimulation when they make love. Full satisfaction for both partners is neither easy nor obvious; it doesn't "come naturally." Astonishingly, almost none of the literature on sex is helpful on this issue. Almost without exception, the "experts" have been asking the wrong questions and are stuck in an old paradigm of how sexual intercourse is supposed to work. As a result, few couples find the advice they need: --Three approaches that allow both partners to get full satisfaction during lovemaking, including simultaneous orgasms, which the conventional wisdom has declared to be virtually impossible --A breakthrough for couples in achieving mutual satisfaction and long-term sexual happiness --Revolutionary ideas that liberate couples from conventional wisdom that doesn't work and helps them communicate about what does