Book excerpt: Transform your relationship today with this 5-step guided conversation designed to identify and dissolve the underlying couple problem in just 60 minutes! Based on 30+ years of clinical research, this highly effective approach will teach you to: *Identify and resolve your underlying couple problem *Understand each other’s deeper beliefs, emotions, and behaviors *Learn how to actively listen and validate your partner's feelings *Break negative communication patterns and learn positive ones *Ask for and receive the type of love you desire You will get all the tools and knowledge you need to not only have a productive and transformative conversation, but you will learn a process that you can use for any future discussions going forward. Couples who have used this process report experiencing more open and bolder communication, increased trust and security, and more reciprocated acts of love and kindness.