Book excerpt: STARTING OVER DOESN'T HAVE TO BE SO HARD After the shock of a relationship change it can be tough to get out of bed in the morning, much less be at your best. But it doesn't have to be that way. With a realistic and proven game plan to help you get where you want to be, THE NEW SINGLE is the essential roadmap to: Surviving the split-up and starting over, 90 days at a time -Embracing the person you are today -Radiating confidence -Taking better care of yourself inside and out, from career and finances, to home, health, and fitness -Avoiding toxic patterns and dangerous missteps Tamsen Fadal is empathetic and incisive about relationships and breakups: she learned many of the lessons in THE NEW SINGLE the hard way. Now, with candor and humor, she's sharing her secrets, stories, and sometimes painful lessons.