Book excerpt: The Other Man in Me is the story of one man's journey to reconcile his two lives--one, a respectable husband, father, church, and community leader; the other, caught in brief same-sex encounters. Drawing from his dreams, fantasies and extensive research, Sheldon discovers the symbolic and spiritual meanings of his erotic longings and same-sex attractions. On that journey he discovers another man living in his soul--a man that connects him to the meaning and purpose of his life. This book will open you to deep places in your soul and help you discover your own meaning.