Book excerpt: Are you prepared to survive a sudden and tragic loss of a loved one? I wasn't, and I paid a heavy price. Things YOU need to know and think about ahead of time, and how to survive and cope with a tragic loss when it happens, from a survivors point of view. I lost my wife of 18 years and was thrust into single parenthood of four young kids in an instant. But with hard work and help, we have regained our lives and are thriving again. Also included, tips on how to act around a bereaved person. A special section written by one of my daughters, who was only 12 when her mother died, called "Through a Childs Eyes" describes what it's like to lose a mother at such a young age.