Book excerpt: Don't be a slave. Start thinking with the Big Head. Thinking With The Big Head: A Guide to Governance is an eye-opening book every man should read if he wants to be successful. It provides practical methods that men can use to control their sexual drive, or "little head." This is the secret to avoiding child support, court cases, "crazy" women and other pitfalls that keep men from achieving their goals. Life is like a Game, a game with catastrophic consequences for those who allow themselves to be blinded by their sexual desires and deceived because of their lack of knowledge. In order to win, a man must understand the rules and the environment in which the Game is played. He must understand who his teammates are as well as his adversaries. He must also have a strategy or game plan. T.W.T.B.H. defines the rules (and loopholes), names the players, and provides strategies to help a man maneuver the various obstacles that he faces on his quest to be the best.