Book excerpt: Everyone in life has most likely experienced heartbreak at one time or another. This does not change the fact that it is very painful and nobody really wants to go through it. The problem with that is the fact that in order to find love you have to take the chance of losing love. Some people may feel like their entire life is over if their partner decides to split ways. If you are one of these people, you need to understand that there is still hope and that there is a chance that your relationship can be repaired and you can be holding your loved one again in no time. Trying to win your ex back is a delicate process and there are some steps that need to be taken in order to ensure that the entire process goes smoothly. In most cases, it will not be as simple as simply asking the person to come back because there was obviously a reason they left in the first place. You must remember not to try to rush the process and to let your ex set the pace.